[TxMt] Delete references as default?

[shin kurokawa]

Hi -
Maybe a feature req or maybe there's
already a solution that I'm not aware of...
I was wondering, if there's a way either by
prefs or by some manual mod somewhere to
make 'delete reference' the default as opposed
to 'move to trash' in a project file that might
contain a large number of directory + file refs.
I've accidentally deleted quite a few files
this way, and would like to minimize
my cursing if possible. :)
-Shin